Tragedy in Aurora

Tragedy in Aurora

The Dark Knight becomes too real and people are running for their lives in utter fear of death in Aurora, Colorado. 

The headlines in the news show the graphic scenes and there is fear that laces the victims faces. 12 lost their lives and over 50 people were hurt. Among those victims,  were children who were hurt while watching their hero on screen.  We are saddened by this act, and I even experienced the after effects last night when I went to see the Dark Knight Rises when they searched my handbag and cops were patrolling the theatre.  I just hate that it has to be take a tragedy for people to consider people's safety. I often imagine that there could have been something done to avoid this but in truth, humans are in fact the most complex anomaly's and we just cannot predict that these things would happen.

On a good note, Christian Bale and his wife went to Aurora and visited the memorial for the victims and the victims.  It is good that Celebrities and especially those in the movie that was being seen, have gone and show their support in the tragedy. 

How would you lend your support?

Young Drivers...

The dangers of driving is higher in teens

But could we do something to avoid these situations? We are in the time where our young drivers are distracted, whether its with cellphones, friends, or other drivers; the facts remain as they are. 

Do you think certain skills should be taught to young drivers before they hit the roads or would you rather depend on AAA? These are constant questions that run through parents minds when they think of ways in helping the children and the youths of their community. Should we teach them things that they will learn eventually or should we take it upon ourselves to teach them ahead of time? 

Also should advertisements use scare tactic to startled young drivers about the fears of driving?  What can be done to help young drivers instead of scaring them? Any ideas?

Work after bereavement...

Have you ever dealt with the death of loved one and didn't know how to function when you went back to work? When condolences were limited to about less than 10 people to acknowledge that your life has been flipped upside down and all you want to do is cry.

How do you go back to work where everyone's life is normal and yours has made a complete 180º? When my brother passed away, I felt like I had a case of phantom limbs, just waiting for this missing limb to reappear, but it never will. It has only been 6 weeks since he died and I feel people are expecting me to like nothing ever happened. Has anyone ever felt that way before? Then next question is how long does it take for someone to heal?

I try every day to stay strong, not just for my children and loved ones, but for the people who depend on me at work. Truthfully, I think I have tried to put my emotions to the side and just have deal with the hand that I was dealt but in truth, I do not think that is the answer either. So question remains, what is the right answer?

Laura Hidalgo
Social Media Manager

Is helping enough?

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Who hasn't been affected by the economy slump we are facing? It doesn't get easier when there are so many charities who are seeking help. Over the past year we have created a social initiative to help our community, but with so many charities in need, we ask ourselves is it enough?

Starting in 2011 through our give back program Westchester Toyota has donated nearly $8,000 to various charities and organizations and continue to help.

But we want to know about the charities that you are passionate about here in Westchester NY and how we can help them. So let us know and we are always looking for new ways to help our community.

Laura Hidalgo

Social Media Manger

Children then & now

I cannot begin to understand the mass amount of technology that is being developed on a daily basis that our children are being submerged with information overload. My daughter that is turning 8 whom was raised watching PBS & Nick Jr including my son who is now 2 years old watches his three favorite shows Thomas, Word World, and Super Why were all raised watching TV; however, after reading various articles wh studies that are indicating that all of this information overload is causing our children to have learning disabilities.

So I question myself am I parenting my children incorrectly by allowing them the luxury of using all this new found technology? Yes I purchased a WII for my daughter but she is only allowed to play games that force her to move her body, I feel its a healthy compromise or am I wrong? My daughter wants a Kindle Fire *or an IPad, which I would never do* but if I provide her these luxuries am I causing harm or good? I want her to have a love for reading like I have developed over the years, am I wrong to believe she will actually use her Kindle for reading or will she discreetly play Angry Birds? Yes I can monitor her but then comes down to the whole trust factor. When do we say NAY to all the technology and teach our kids the joys of playing & drinking from water-hose like we did as children?

As of late I see more children walking down the street with their eyes glued to a screen of some sort whether its an 3DS, PSP, IPod, or any other tablet in the market; I no longer hear the laughter of children playing hopscotch, jump rope, or riding their bikes.

The final questions are: as parents, should we actively involved in play instead of monitoring our children? Are the kids of now happier or were the generations prior happier?

Laura Hidalgo
Social Media Manager

Why we HATE Bullies

12 Year old East Harlem boy driven to suicide because of Bullying. I have read these articles numerously and I just don't understand why? Why are children so merciless and cruel? This child's mother went to the extreme to protect her child and the bullies prevailed by driving her son to commit suicide. In realization of her sons death, she intended to take her own life using the knife she use to cut her sons rope that he used to hang himself. 

As a mother of 2 children, my daughter Naiya was a victim of bullying. I spoke with her teachers and they reached out to the parents.  I just couldn't bare the idea that my child could suffer the fate of this child, so last November I enrolled her at Tiger Schulmann's mixed martial art in Yonkers. It was Sensei Tirelli that gave my daughter confidence to stand up for herself and stop the bullies from picking on her.  

Honestly, this wasn't enough in my mind, I couldn't bare to see another child bullied and so I talked to my General Manager about doing an ANTI-BULLYING campaign in our local school district. I worked with Sensei Tirelli who was on board in participating in the joint effort in stopping bullying from our schools. So in effort in stopping Bullying, we here at Westchester Toyota want you our friends, fans, and loyal readers to tell your school about our ANTI-BULLYING CAMPAIGN. We want you to voice that WE NEED this in our schools so there won't be another child like Joel Morales who had to take his own life to stop the bullies. Please E-Mail me if you would like for me to send our campaign idea so you can forward it to your local school board.

Laura Hidalgo

Social Media Manager

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